When I say headstrong I’m referring to those women who are
too hard—overly protective of themselves because of past men who have toyed
with their emotions and took them for granted. These are the women who flee
from being too involved, never putting all their eggs in one basket. Resembling
the characteristics of the stereotypical male player type who swears on never
committing.
When I say too emotional I’m speaking about those women who
are hurt by every small thing their man does or doesn’t do. Women who get upset
or sad because he’s running late, or he chooses to hang with his guys one night
instead of them (guilty). These are the women who turn the smallest of
conversations into the largest of arguments because they are overly dependent
on their man which stemmed from a lack of love from a previous relationship(s).
Women may feel the need to lean more towards one than the
other, but guess what…
There is NOTHING wrong with simply being tender. You were
made to be more emotional than men. Mind you, this isn’t an excuse to drive
your men crazy. There is still a certain level of emotional stress that you
must be careful to release onto your men at once.
Ladies, never overcompensate within your emotions because of
some past dilemma that you experienced with other men. If you want and are
ready to give and receive true love, be open to it. There’s nothing wrong with
acting with caution because of something that happened in the past, but that’s
all the past should be—a clearer leans for you to view life and relationships
with so that when the same thing comes a long you can spot it from a mile
away—not an excuse to toy with someone else’s emotions before they toy with
yours. Or, cling too tightly so that they won’t let go.
There’s a fine line between emotional and annoying.
Let’s create that gray area and dwell in it for a change.
